Musings From A Musical Mind

My friend Barry found the item below and posted it today on facebook.  I read it and thought, “how true this is”!!We often “settle” – especially as women.  It is not easy to find a “good man” who is loving and kind – gentle and respectful of women.  When you find a good one – HANG ON TO HIM!!!

How many women settle for something WAY different than this model?  Too many.  The amount of verbal and physical abuse among couples is HUGE.  And so many problems happen because of disrespect and apathy.  If more men would take the following and apply it to their lives – the world would be a better place.

Women respond to gentleness.  Women respond to Love.  Women respond to someone who protects them and cares about her emotional needs.  A real man covers – never exposes.  A real man loves someone for WHO they are – not for what they DO – or what they look like on the outside.  A man that is humble,  kind and patient – strong of character and integrity.  Who won’t “talk down” and make someone feel bad. – A real man encourages that woman to be everything she can be – and think she’s the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen.

How true this is – for those of us that have found a man like this.  They are rare indeed.  I’ve had friends come and go in my life – and the ones that end up sticking around and being forever friends are the ones that know how to treat me – love and encourage with their words and actions – cover and never expose for their own personal gain.  I love my friends ♥  I have come to trust them over time – men and women who share common things – and who are on a journey with me – in this thing called “life”.  They are the very model of Christ himself to me.  And I have a husband who is ALL of these things listed below.  The longer I know him – the more incredible qualities I see in him.

Here is the list – Enjoy and God Bless!


© He is a gentleman,

© He is confident

© He is a provider and protector

© He is rich and powerful

© He owns everything; there is nothing He wouldn’t do for me

© He perfects all things concerning me

© He anticipates my wants and needs

© Every day He tells me and shows me how much He loves me

© I don’t have to perform in order to earn His love

© He keeps all of his promises

© No one can influence His opinion of me

© He is the ultimate intimate partner

© He can’t ‘disown’ me because I am a part of Him

© He prepares a table before me (Selah)

© He covers me and doesn’t expose me

© He wrote His loving words down so that I’ll never forget how He feels about me!


Any man, w ho wants pointers on how to love a woman, should study GOD!

Wake up every day and thank God for being the best ‘man’ in your life!

Each and everyone one of us is going through tough times right now, but God is getting ready to bless you in a way that only He can.

Keep the faith!
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose..
Romans 8:28 KJV


Comments on: "Can Men Really Get It Right?" (10)

  1. mayablogs said:

    My Dh. is all of those. 🙂
    (Just don’t let him see this comment, LOL:)

  2. debi verwers said:

    While I read this in the background playing is the old Hymn that goes “Peace, Peace wonderful Peace coming down from the Farther above……” 2009’s “Ending” brought Peace into my life in an unexpected painful way……Thanks Cindy for posting this I am “Keeping the Faith” and standing on God’s promises and learning to not compromise!! God has a plan doesn’t he….and it is for my good!!! What amazing Peace I have as I enter into 2010 a stronger women of God, focused forward, standing strong in my Faith knowing God holds me in his hands!! This is a great reminder that God truly needs to be first in your life!

  3. I love this too. Thank you for sharing. Have a great weekend.

  4. Oh I simply love this! Yes indeed! Thanks for posting this!

  5. Greg Holman said:

    This is great Cindy – and the key is found in a man being comfortable in his own skin and healthy emotionally; because if we feel insecure, we tend to want to manipulate and control.
    I appreciate your compliments hon and am humbled – certainly I’m not all of these things, but I would kind of like to have more of the “rich and powerful” characteristic – ha!!!

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