Musings From A Musical Mind

1. Let go of the past – It does NOT define me – there’s so much in the present to be thankful for and concentrate on.  This includes people and circumstances I can’t change.

2. Friendships cannot be forced – if you have to try to convince someone they should be your friend – or continually be the only one reaching out – then these people are not your friends – pray for them – but let them go.  True friendship should not be hard work – it is a meeting of the minds and a ‘heart’ connection.  Comfortable like an old pair of slippers.

3. Surprises in life happen when and where you least expect them – my husband and I started attending a ‘church plant’ of about 50 members last fall and have found ourselves in a new season with new ministry opportunities – and new relationships – something we never thought would happen.

4. Making a stand for things that are right can make you very unpopular with friends and family – but we do it anyway.

5. Sometimes painful things can resurface – it’s okay to cry, hit something (or someone) jump up and down or SCREAM!!  Just don’t stay there long.  Get up and don’t allow yourself or others to do that to you again.  Ever.

6. Make your relationships a high priority – marriage can be hard work – but it’s worth fighting for.  Don’t allow it to become stale and boring.  DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!  Fall in love with your spouse all over again – it can be done – just ask me!!

7 . Find an outlet for your creativity – I’m a musician first – a writer second.  I know that I have to do both of these activities in order to feel healthy and ‘get it out’.  Find something you are passionate about and DO IT.

8.  Invest in people – even if you have been burned by doing this in the past – by even one other person – don’t give up on investing in them.  We need other people and they NEED us!

9.  Give advice only when it is asked – and even if it is asked – keep it short and to the point with A LOT of love and graciousness.

10. Treat others like you would like to be treated – It sounds good on paper but it does not always translate well when applying it to those in your life.  Always say to yourself, ‘would I like to be on the receiving end of this email, phone call or conversation?’  If not – then don’t write or say it.

 

This is just a glimpse into some of the things I learned this past year as I continue on my journey.  I hope you are doing the same!

 

God Bless

 

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Comments on: "10 Important Things I Learned This Year" (9)

  1. […] several blogs and stumbled upon a particular post that sparked the desire for this post…  “10 important things I learned this year.” Cindy Holman outlined ten things she learned this […]

  2. Yeah, Cindy, I think we’ve all learned some important things in the past year or years. Seems to be a time of change for many. This week on my blog, we’re dealing primarily with business and still. . . the emphasis is on doing more of what works and eliminating those things that don’t. I guess it’s a pretty basic tenet of life, eh?

    You mention about being a musician first, writer second. Well, my personal drug of choice in the arts department is knitting. I’ve been doing it for over 50 years now and I tried to quit this year or. . . well, I thought I lost interest. I learned that I have to knit or else! And that’s a heavy dose of OR ELSE! LOL It really IS a part of me, so let the clicking continue! (or singing/playing the piano in your case 🙂

  3. Very true. It’s great to look back on the year and see what we’ve learned and what we have yet to learn.

  4. Wonderful Post!

  5. Great post!! i enjoyed seeing the things you believed to be the most important in your life and what you have learned. Not only did i enjoy it, but it also sparked interest to do it for myself also.

    So often we live life forgetting that the most important lessons are learned from our own mistakes, of which we all make often.

    Great post, keep it up!!

    PS- great comment about marriage being hard but worth it, my generation seems to have lost that mindset and its truly tragic

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